i haven't written blog for long time, just now i chated with a friend, a single man, his words touched me deeply. i think i should write something.

when i graduated from college and got a job in a company, i wanted to work hardly, and  wanted to get success of my career. I didn't want to find the right man, fall in love and marry in several years. i thought i would married after age 30. afterward i married before age 30 for my sick dad, in my mather's words, "don't make your father regret for your marriage". i was so sorry that i couldn't take care of my sick dad for my job, i did't want to make my father worry about me. i had a boyfriend then and married in two years. but i have never thought it's a problem if i marry after age 30.

my friend's words changed my mind.he is 31 years old, still single, his friends, including me, are all kind hearted to introduce girls to him. today, i introduced a girl to him. the girl is one month older than him. following are his words:

won't consider, she's older than me.

a girl of thirtyages is single. is she a right one to marry?

though she's single, as so old girl, she had story in her old times.

she's too old to control.

i can find a younger girl by my qualification, why do i choose her?

and so on.

i was so surprise when i heard the words. why? i can't understand. i read some article about what is named "remainder girl", i don't regard it as right. today, i have to trust it when i know my friend's mind. i don't know if all the single men think like that. it makes me feel terrible. i haven't known age is so sensitive to women.